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Blog Posts - the "Daily Diary"
Explore solo travel stories, cruise experiences, tips & guides.


34 Cruises in One Year: Life at Sea, Reflection, and Finding Balance
I spent 225+ nights and 34 cruises at sea in one year. This reflection explores balance, purpose, community, and what comes next.
colesjoholm
Dec 26, 20253 min read


Tapas + Tears: Finding Perspective in Barcelona
Sitting here in Barcelona on yet another rainy afternoon, I stumbled across an article titled “The 25 Most Beautiful Cities in the World” ( link here ). A single tear rolls down my cheek—not from the sudden downpour (my trusty €6 umbrella is holding up just fine)—but from the realization that I’ve been to most of the cities on the list, with a few more already planned for this year. And just like that, it hits me again: I am truly, incredibly fortunate. A few short years ago
colesjoholm
Mar 24, 20254 min read


The Perfect Ending to a Winter in the Caribbean & Mexico
When I land home in Grand Junction late on the night of Sunday, February 16, I will have completed the longest single trip of my life—88 nights. Seven cruise ships, five hotels, Disneyland… and a bite from a jaguar. I’ve traveled all over the Caribbean and Mexico, revisiting familiar destinations and exploring several new ones, including Dominica and Honduras—bringing my total country count to 44. Ironically, my final stop before returning to the U.S. was Puerto Vallarta, Mex
colesjoholm
Feb 16, 20255 min read


Getting Out of the Funk: Finding Perspective Through Life at Sea
Today marks my 51st day of travel since I left Grand Junction, Colorado, on November 20th, meaning I have 37 days to go before I fly home on February 16th. Pinch me—I don’t want it to end. The majority of my time has been spent onboard Carnival ships, while this week’s voyage has been aboard the award-winning and Forbes Four-Star-rated Celebrity Apex . To say the experiences between cruise lines are different is an understatement, but I’ve found myself enjoying the variety mo
colesjoholm
Jan 10, 20253 min read


Spinning without a purpose
After a year of purposeful travel, life at sea feels different. A reflective journey through Cartagena, Costa Rica, the Panama Canal, and beyond—searching for meaning again
colesjoholm
Dec 12, 20243 min read


Pinching Myself Everyday: Life at Sea in the Caribbean
Five Caribbean ports in five days while cruising from NYC—reflecting on friendships, life at sea, and gratitude during a winter spent onboard.
colesjoholm
Dec 12, 20246 min read


A Beautiful, Wicked World: Seeing Wicked on Broadway in NYC
A reflective New York City night—Wicked on Broadway, historic Lower Manhattan, legendary bars, and a quiet moment of gratitude for how far life can take you.
colesjoholm
Nov 22, 20243 min read


The Happy Place: Solo Travel, Cruise Life & Personal Reflection
A raw reflection on solo travel, heartbreak, growth, and why a cruise ship remains my happy place during life's transitions.
colesjoholm
Oct 9, 20243 min read


A Day of Remembrance: Visiting the 9/11 Memorial, Museum & NYC Icons
A deeply reflective visit to the 9/11 Memorial & Museum, followed by unforgettable moments across New York City.
colesjoholm
Jun 19, 20244 min read


Carnival Celebration Cruise Review: Miami to Caribbean Ports
A reflective Carnival Celebration cruise through St. Maarten, San Juan, and Puerto Plata—travel moments, culture, and the meaning of living more.
colesjoholm
Jun 14, 20245 min read


The Trip That Wasn't: Choosing Stillness After Travel
A thoughtful reflection on canceling a major trip, trusting intuition, and embracing calm and balance after a year of nonstop global travel.
colesjoholm
Feb 11, 20243 min read


Light in the Darkness: Antarctica, Ushuaia, and What's Next
After Antarctica and Ushuaia, a solo LGBTQ traveler reflects on endings, polar plunges, and embracing what's next in 2024
colesjoholm
Dec 30, 20232 min read


Final Stop in Antarctica: Yankee Harbour and the Last Landing
A final landing in Antarctica at Yankee Harbour—penguins, seals, wildlife, and reflection at the end of a seven-continent journey.
colesjoholm
Dec 27, 20232 min read


Don’t Cry for Me, Argentina: Buenos Aires Before Antarctica
Rainy days in Buenos Aires brought tango, culture, unforgettable meals, and quiet reflections before the journey to Antarctica
colesjoholm
Dec 19, 20239 min read


Touch Down on Continent Six: Seven Continents Travel Journey
An emotional milestone—touching down on continent six, reflecting on tears, growth, friendship, and the journey towards all seven continents in one year.
colesjoholm
Dec 14, 20236 min read
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